My Granny Ott's dough board and my Aunt Ethel's rolling pin. |
I recently took a DNA test and when I got my results back I was contacted by a young woman who said that I showed up as her closest DNA relative. We have been messaging back and forth. It turns out that her grandpa was my Granny Ott's brother. Sadly, she didn't even know her grandparents' names until I told her. She has no knowledge of her dad's paternal side of the family. My mom and I are putting together a packet of information for her. It made me so sad to think that she didn't realize that she had this huge extended family that she has never gotten to know. Here I have the old dough board that her grandpa and dad probably enjoyed foods rolled out on and she doesn't even have a picture or copy of a marriage license. I am making it my Christmas act of kindness to give her the family history.
I didn't need to take a DNA test. Our family history is well documented but I just wanted to see if there was ancestry that I hadn't known...and there was. I had no idea that I had descended from Iberians, Balkans, and Ashenazi Jews. That is exciting and interesting but I didn't need to know that to feel that I know who I am. I grew up in an area what there are a lot of large families and most families passed their stories and heirlooms down to successive generations (like the dough board).
I hope that if you don't know your family history you will take a DNA test and see who pops up on your connections. It can be a wonderful experience and you make get acquainted, as I did, with a relative that you can share information and stories with.